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How to Have What You REALLY Want

Are you realizing your deepest desires? Are you living the life of your dreams? Is your life and business everything you’d imagined it would be?

Or are you like I was, stuck wondering how you can have what you really want?

Here’s a video recorded to help a friend answer that very question. Take a look:

Video Transcript:

I want to talk to you about something that came up when I was speaking to a friend..

She is just at the beginning of her journey. And as I was speaking with her, I realized…

I’ve made it to a place that I once only dreamed about.

A life of travel and connection and family and creativity.
And the ability to take almost two weeks of being fully unplugged while my businesses not only serve and continue to make an impact, but new creations are arising.
Amazing, incredible things are being created without me even being involved.

I’m at a place where I’m able to vision and see the realities become true – very fast.

As we spoke about the beginning of her journey, I remembered being in a place where manifestation did not happen very rapidly.

I have years worth of journals where I wrote about the life that I wanted – the impact that I wanted to have, the people that I wanted surrounding me, the family, the love, the laughter.

So much of it felt so far away.

And I remember being trapped and stuck in a loop of how.

How can I have what I really want?

And I heard my friend reflect that today in her own words and thoughts of being stuck in the how.

So what I want to offer you today is the gift of a shortcut.

Don’t worry about the HOW. And I know it’s easier to say than to do.

But take on the practice of focusing on the WHAT.

What do you want? What do you want your life to look like?

Write it down. Speak it. Feel it. Allow it to permeate your being with not a shred of consideration for the how.

Because as I look back over the years, I see so much time and energy wasted on the how. And that the more I got clear on the what and surrendered any attachment to how that showed up, the faster, more rapidly my dreams came true.

That’s happening now. And it can happen for you too.

The key to having what you really want is to relax the HOW and get super clear on the WHAT. {Tweet It!} 

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It’s going to support you to get evermore present and clear about the what and the life you.

And when you do, the how will naturally unfold.

Now it’s your turn!

I’d love to hear your WHAT – what you want to create if there was no restriction, no hold-back – what are you wanting now? Leave me a comment below.