If You’ve Been Looking for a Sign, This is It…
It’s Time to Commit Fully to the Next Evolution of Your Purpose
On 2/22/2022, I married myself. Truth be told, until it happened, I had no idea what a self-wedding was, or what would happen on the day itself.
And, then, this is what happened:
While the day itself was magical, the wedding was a representation of a commitment process that began a year or so earlier when I started creating a marriage contract with myself.
I never imagined I’d actually have a real wedding. Even days before the ceremony, I didn’t have the dress you see me wearing in the video.
And, the harpist? How the heck did that even happen?!
The original poetry by Adam Roa. What a gift!
The two officiants - Christopher Life and Jess Magic - really had no idea what the wedding would even be until the day of the ceremony itself.
Yet, as you saw in this short clip, it was a full wedding, seemingly planned over months at least.
Here’s what’s really crazy: even 3 weeks before the wedding, I had no idea it would be like this.
But, what I discovered through the process of creating a marriage contract, getting engaged to myself (yes, I did that too with a formal ceremony), and then having a real wedding…
All-in commitment, along with ritual and ceremony, brings forward all of the resources you need, and literally makes your dreams come true. Like magic.
Here’s the thing, though: it’s not magic.
It’s you.
Your commitment.
Your creatorship.
Your “evidencing” to Life itself (and to yourself) that you are worthy to receive the answers to your prayers.
If you’ve ever wondered how it is that some people seem to have a midas touch where everything they touch turns to gold …
This is their secret.
In a world full of corruption, violence, and pain, clarifying your values, making your vows, discovering real self love, and committing is a game changer that can empower the next stage of your own clarity, belonging, and personal evolution.
It did that for me.Because when you learn to honor yourself — to truly embrace who you are and commit to the truth of who you are, why you’re here, and what’s yours to do — everything in your life begins to shift in the best ways possible.
So, if you are ready for the next phase of your own evolution, through the power of commitment, purpose, ritual, and, yes, magic created through one of the most practical tool on the planet - marriage - you’ll probably want to see everything about how it came to be, including:
How I created my marriage contract: What was in the contract, and the process of creating it:
What You'll Experience — Completely Free
The full Marry Yourself journey, from first thought to wedding day.
How I created my marriage contract (a Ketubah), what was in it, the rings of relationship, and the process of making it real.
📜 The Contract
💍 The Proposal & Engagement
Yes, I did that too — with a formal ceremony. See how the engagement unfolded and what it meant to say yes to myself.
The full wedding experience — the dress, the harpist, the officiants, the original poetry by Adam Roa, and the moment that changed everything.
✨The Wedding
🪞Reflections & Interviews
Hear from the people who were there — the officiants who had no idea what the wedding would be until the day, and my own reflections on what shifted.